Aries men are known for being passionate warriors yet they possess an almost childlike curiosity.
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The truth is, keeping their attention can be tough.
But it’s not impossible. If you’re wondering how you can make him completely obsessed with you, you’re in the right place.
In this article, we’re going to cover everything from how to get his interest, keeping it once you’re together, and which signs are compatible with Aries.
But first, let’s start by understanding what Aries men look for in women.
What qualities do Aries men like in women?
Before you can make him obsessed with you, it helps to know what Aries men love in women.
Some of the main qualities an Aries man looks for are drive and passion. Just as he is determined and strong-willed, he also wants a woman who shares the same goals and dreams for the future.
They’re the perfect match for ambitious, career-driven women who want a man who can handle their success, and more importantly who will encourage and support them in reaching their goals.
Other qualities that attract Aries men include being:
Now, you don’t have to be all of the above, but the more you possess, the higher your chances are of making him obsessed with you.
The next step in getting him to crave you like crazy is to initiate the chase.
What’s the chase?
It’s where you make him notice you enough to want to pursue you. Without the chase, there’s nothing to keep him interested.
That’s because Aries men are motivated by challenges and they love working hard for their pleasures, so the more you make him chase you, the more he’ll want you.
How can you make an Aries man chase you?
Here are some fool-proof ways to get your Aries man interested in you:
1. Let him protect you
Aries men indeed love a strong, independent woman, but they also like to feel that they’re in control and able to look after the people they love.
Letting him protect you doesn’t have to mean giving up your personal power and acting weak. Small gestures like letting him check in on you after a long day at work or opening the car door for you can go a long way.
It gives your Aries man a chance to look after you, something that appeals largely to his personality and to what he’s looking for in a partner.
If you’re wondering how else you can make him feel protective over you, then you need to know about a new concept in relationship psychology that’s generating a lot of buzz at the moment.
It’s called the hero instinct.
You see, most of us think that we understand what men want from a relationship, but sometimes we miss the mark.
Above all else, men want to feel like a hero towards the woman they care about.
By a hero, I don’t mean a Marvel character or a situation where you need to act like a damsel in distress – far from it.
The hero instinct is an innate biological drive within men to be needed, respected, and essential.
And the best bit is that you can actually trigger this instinct in your man.
All you need to do is find ways to make him feel like your hero. There’s an art to doing this which can be a lot of fun when you know exactly what to do.
The best way to learn how to trigger the hero instinct in your guy is to watch this free online video.
James Bauer, the relationship psychologist who first coined this term, gives a terrific introduction to his game-changing concept.
Some ideas are life changing. And when it comes to making an Aries man obsessed over you, I think this is one of them.
Here’s a link to the free video again.
2. Don’t chase him
Go easy on chasing him.
It doesn’t matter how cute he is or how long it’s been since your last date, let him pursue you. If you make all the first moves, he’ll see it as “too easy” and quickly lose interest.
If he wants to go out for dinner, don’t text him with suggestions. Let him plan the date and work around your timetable rather than making yourself fully available.
The bottom line is, you don’t want to make his job easy. Let him know you’re interested, and then let him put in the hard work – it’s the best way to get his attention.
3. Don’t be clingy
So even though you should let him into your life a little bit, don’t go overboard.
An Aries man won’t appreciate feeling trapped or suffocated, so avoid texting him constantly or making too many plans with him.
Keep your independence (another trait that he’ll love) and don’t forget your social life just because you’ve got a new love interest.
By doing this, you’ll not only avoid being clingy and needy, but you’ll make yourself far more interesting to him because you have a life of your own.
4. Have a sense of humor
Aries men have a sense of humor and they look for that in their partners too. They want a woman who can have lighthearted banter with them, or who has a quick wit and smart rebuttals.
There’s a fine line here though, as they don’t like cruel jokes or offensive senses of humor, so try not to overdo it.
Keep your sense of humor sincere, classy, and fast-paced – he’ll quickly fall in love with your conversations and keep coming back for more.
5. Don’t forget to flirt
And finally, don’t overlook the power of flirting.
Not only are they great charmers, but Aries men love to be mentally and physically turned on, so flirt in a way that appeals to both his mind and his body.
And, since Aries men are very receptive to stimulation and they love physical touch, don’t be afraid to let a bit of sexual tension build-up.
Tease him, make him laugh, and keep an element of mystery to your life and he’ll find you irresistible.
So, once the chase is underway, you know you’ve got him a little bit hooked on you already. But, as much as Aries men need physical attraction, it’s the mental side that you need to keep interested.
You need to keep reminding him why he was attracted to your personality and by following the steps below, you can make sure his interest in you never wavers.
15 ways to make an Aries man obsessed with you
1) Trigger his hero instinct
Want to know the absolute best way to make an Aries man obsessed by you?
Trigger his hero instinct.
I mentioned this concept above. And I know for a fact it works extremely well on Aries men.
According to the hero instinct, men have a biological drive to live a life full of meaning and to be there for the people they care about.
And this drive is amplified in their romantic relationships.
The best part is that you can actually trigger the hero instinct in your Aries man.
There are words you can say, phrases you can use, and little requests you can make to trigger this very natural instinct in him.
To learn all about them, watch this excellent free video about the hero instinct.
I don’t often buy into popular new concepts in psychology or recommend videos. But if you want an Aries guy to commit to a relationship with you, learning about the hero instinct can make all the difference.
Here’s a link to his video again.
2) Don’t hide your ambitions
This is a fact – Aries men love to see ambition in their ladies.
Whether it’s working your way up in your job or setting up your own business, showing how passionate you are about your work will drive your Aries man crazy (in a good way).
Aries men tend to be very ambitious and they enjoy the finer things in life, but they aren’t the best at saving their precious pennies.
Therefore, they seek women who are in control of their finances and can help contribute to creating an empire together.
And if you’re not the ambitious type, don’t fake it. It’s not an easy secret to keep hidden and your Aries man might enjoy encouraging you to find a career that you love.
3) Make an effort with his friends
A sure-fire way to get him obsessed with you is to win over his friends. Aries is one of the most sociable out of all the zodiac signs, so they take friendships seriously.
And to your Aries fella, nothing will show him how great you are like his friends praising you (and being jealous of him).
The truth is, he doesn’t want you to become best buds with his friends, but he does care what they think and if they give you a thumbs up – it’ll only make him more into you.
So the next time he invites you to hang out with the gang, make a real effort to get to know them all, and don’t forget to let him know how much you enjoy hanging out as a group.
4) Get active…
Aries men love adrenaline – anything sporty is right up their street.
Now, I know some of you are already thinking, “Uh oh, I haven’t played sports since school”, but don’t worry.
If you’re not the sporty type, you can still make him obsessed with you by slowly introducing a bit of physical activity into your life.
Even if it just means going for a walk on the weekend or a game of tennis after work, he’ll appreciate your effort and will probably encourage you to be more active (which is never a bad thing).
If you are already sporty, great news. Just carry on as you and don’t be afraid to be competitive – he’ll love having someone to challenge him physically.
5) And get adventurous
Ladies, if you’re the type who loves quiet evenings in, you’re going to have to shake it up a bit and keep your Aries man on his toes.
Being bored and falling into comfortable routines are far from what Aries men like, so the more adventure and spontaneity, the better.
But with that being said, you don’t have to completely give up on cozy evenings snuggled on the sofa, just make sure to balance it out with plenty of exciting adventures where possible.
Find out what your guy is into – if it’s theme parks, surprise him with tickets one weekend, or look for local activities you can do together so it breaks up the usual “dinner and a movie” dates.
6) Don’t make it easy for him to win you over
As I mentioned earlier, Aries men prefer a chase. They want to pursue you and have challenges along the way.
Here’s the deal:
The quicker you give in to them, the sooner they’ll lose interest.
Playing hard to get might sound a bit outdated and I’m sure many experts would say game playing doesn’t help – but you’re dealing with an Aries, and they’re notorious for loving a challenge.
So play the game a little bit.
Don’t make yourself available every time he asks you out and take your time when it comes to being emotionally and physically intimate, it’ll only make him more obsessed with you.