Geminis have a lot of positive attributes. They can be charming, clever, enthusiastic, communicative, flirtatious, funny, and friendly. In other words, you can expect to have a good time with a Gemini! This is great news if you’re looking to enter a relationship with one!
However, there are drawbacks to Geminis. They can be moody, high maintenance, too playful, and not expressive enough when it comes to their feelings. Mainly, they do not play games when it comes to the heart. They aren’t into mind games, and they won’t intentionally hurt you.
So, what happens when you ignore a Gemini man? Geminis do not like it when you play hard to get, so ignoring a Gemini man is not an effective way to win him over.
Of course, keep in mind that each person is different. You may come across a Gemini man who does play games and wants to chase after you. In other words, there may be a Gemini man out there who wants you to play hard to get; every person is unique, but the typical Gemini won’t stand for games in a relationship.
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What It Means When A Gemini Man Ignores You
If you have a Gemini who ignores you, there may be several reasons for his behavior. The hardest reality to accept is that he just is not that interested in you. If you find him playing hard to get, I don’t recommend chasing after him. He’s probably not worth it; if he was, he would be chasing you, and you wouldn’t have to wonder how he feels.
Another possible reason for a Gemini’s absent heart is that he’s just distracted. He may be busy with work or the lively parties that he loves to go to. The other possible explanation that may make you a little uncomfortable is he’s seeing someone new. Geminis crave excitement and variety; they can easily get distracted by a new person. I know. It hurts, but it’s better to know.
A final possible reason for his sudden absence in your life is the overwhelming feelings of either him or you. Have you recently revealed the deep feelings you have for the relationship? Maybe he is reflecting and is overwhelmed by his own feelings for you. It may be a shock to his system! If so, just give him time; ease up and don’t pressure him to talk about his feelings.
Why Playing Hard To Get Won’t Work With A Gemini
Geminis are ruled by their brains; they think and analyze everything. They thrive on learning new things and trying to figure everything out. If your Gemini suspects you are playing games with him, he won’t be impressed. Rather, he will be annoyed and probably won’t put up with it. He’s just not into playing games when it comes to matters of the heart.
He may make assumptions about why you are playing hard to get, which isn’t a good thing because Geminis have wild imaginations. He may think you aren’t that into him or that you are too distracted for the relationship. In those cases, he’ll probably move on with his life. Even worse, he may think you are with someone else and will definitely want to end it with you.
Another possible assumption he may come to if you aren’t giving him enough attention is that you just don’t have the time or energy for a relationship with him. Geminis are pretty high maintenance, and they know what they want in a relationship. If they think you aren’t able to deliver, they will just move on with their life, thinking that you aren’t a good match.
What To Do To Get The Attention Of A Gemini
So, it’s clear that a Gemini man doesn’t want to be ignored or put up with you playing hard to get. They require ample attention and are a tad high maintenance (wink)! Because of this, you shouldn’t ignore a Gemini or give them less attention even if you feel like it is one of the best ways to win a man over.
I am a strong believer in the “hard to get” game, and it’s effectiveness on men, but when it comes to a Gemini, you shouldn’t push the envelope with this tactic. Just because it works with most guys doesn’t mean it will work with a Gemini man.
So, you are probably wondering if there is anything you can do to get the attention of a Gemini. Well, there are plenty of other ways to make your Gemini “the one.” In this section, we will look at some other tactics you can try to win over your man and to make him the love of your life! Try one of these ideas rather than playing hard to get!
1. Be spontaneous
Be one of a kind, a sexy beauty! You want to look your best for your Gemini boyfriend, right? Change it up occasionally, too! Try new hairstyles or different makeup. A little variety will do your courtship good.
10. Be fun and exciting
Keep it interesting! Remember, Geminis love excitement. Plan adventurous dates or tell new stories. Just keep him guessing and wondering what you have in store for the two of you next!
What do you do when a Gemini man ignores you?
There are two things you can do if you find you are being ignored by a Gemini man; first, you can just move on; if he is ignoring you, he is probably not that interested in you; second, you can get his attention by being social and friendly!
What is a Gemini man”s weakness?
Gemini men go weak for spontaneity and exotic things. Show him you are unique by talking about interesting things; this will also get his attention. Tell stories of the adventures you have had in your life, and he will love it! Captivate and intrigue him with your tales of wonder!
What does it mean when a Gemini man is quiet?
Geminis love talking, so if you have caught a Gemini guy being quiet, he may be upset. I would recommend talking to him openly and honestly; try to get him to open up to see what’s going on. What might be bothering him? Ask him open-ended personal questions.
How do you know if a Gemini man is not interested in you anymore?
The most obvious sign a Gemini man is not interested in you is him ignoring you. If he has chosen to not make time to spend with you anymore or has quit calling to ask you out, he has probably moved on to someone he finds to be more stimulating.
How do you tell if a Gemini man is playing you?
Geminis are not typically into playing games. They can be playful and very flirtatious, though! Usually, when a guy is playing you, he’s leading you on. Geminis don’t like to hurt girls intentionally; they are very positive, happy creatures! They want everyone to have a good time!
To Sum Things Up…
Are you trying to get the attention of a Gemini man? What tactics have you tried? What worked for you and what didn’t? What did you think of the suggestions offered in this article?